Monday, August 26, 2013

Celebrate Life!

Today was a GREAT day, it was my mother's birthday!  But not just any birthday, it was a milestone birthday, I am purposely not stating her age because I don't want to get in trouble :)


For mom's birthday, she chose to have all of us attend a "steppin" convention that was happening locally.  Steppin is a type of dance which I believe originated in Chicago.  It was alot of fun watching everyone dance in a drama free environment with smiles on their faces.  It's always nice to dress up, celebrate and have a good time with those you LOVE!

Watching my mother dance was great, if you recall back in December I posted a blog entry regarding a nuclear medicine appointment I went to with my mother because they feared she may have had cancer.  Long story short, at that point, my mother had lost 50 pounds and seen every type of doctor she could see, similar to the woman in Luke 8 who had spent all that she had.  The good news is that Jesus passed by and she was able to touch His garment and be made well!  I would like to testify that my mother too was able to touch the hem of His garment through prayer and supplication.  Today was proof that prayer works!

People and special events are worthy of being celebrated, just like when the wall of Jerusalem was finished being built (which was an accomplishment) there was a celebration as recorded in Nehemiah 12:27.

Life can be a roller coaster ride, remember to celebrate, capture and enjoy it when you can.  Happy Birthday mom - we love you!

Blessings,
-d

Monday, August 12, 2013

The Sweet Taste of Sin

SUGAR - why we can't resist it
(The title of the Aug 2013 cover article for the National Geographic magazine)

The title was a catchy one, and so I reached for the magazine in an effort to better understand why I sometimes crave a lil' taste of 1000 Grand, Almond Joy, Skor, Rolo, Reeses, Twix, Snickers, Payday (I could use one now - literally and figuratively), you get the point so let's move on.

As I began reading the article it was interesting to me how they not only provide background information on sugar but also provided a daily sugar intake limit - 6 teaspoons/100 calories for women and 9 teaspoons/150 calories for men.  As I continued to read I could not help but think of the similarities that sugar and sin have: great presentation, taste great going down, easy to access, bad for you, catches up to you later, addicting, documented history and effects, etc...


Many of us know the facts about both sin and sugar so why do we continue to behave in the same destructive way?  Is it because we do not like ourselves - maybe, is it we simply do not want to change, is it we do not realize we are addicted?

What ever the reason, both have and continue to contribute to our demise.  If it were that simple the majority of us would be in large part DRAMA FREE.  Maybe one way to begin to cut back on these culprits  is to actively seek to change our behavior one action at a time.  When we win these individual actions, we should celebrate those successes and continue to build on that.

The author of the article makes this statement, “It seems like every time I study an illness and trace a path to the first cause, I find my way back to sugar"
 
 
The article goes on to quote Richard Johnson, a nephrologist at the University of Colorado Denver, who sums up the conventional wisdom this way: Americans are fat because they eat too much and exercise too little. But they eat too much and exercise too little because they’re addicted to sugar, which not only makes them fatter but, after the initial sugar rush, also saps their energy, beaching them on the couch. “The reason you’re watching TV is not because TV is so good,” he said, “but because you have no energy to exercise, because you’re eating too much sugar.”  The solution? Stop eating so much sugar.



As for Sin, Romans 6 does a fantastic job in dealing with the struggle we have with sin.  Verses 12-14 state - 12 "Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts. 13 And do not present your members as instruments of unrighteousness to sin, but present yourselves to God as being alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God. 14 For sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under law but under grace."
 
Chapter 6 concludes (verse 23) the following way - "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord"
 
While sugar affects the quality of our lives and aides in quickening the physical death, sin brings us a spiritual death that we have no way of escaping.  Oh, but the blood of Christ is the answer to sin and to begin you simply need to accept the gift of grace and know He loves you.  After that hold on to His unchanging hand knowing that life will throw you all manner of curve balls!
 
For both sin and sugar we have to pick up our crosses, die daily and be purposeful in our choices - WE CAN DO IT!  Do you believe it?

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Quality Time - A Bit More Than I Asked For!

Each of us needs to be able to spend "Quality Time" with those we love and like, even if there is an insane amount of carnality.  A few weekends ago was one of those times for my family, mother and brother's family to able to spend time together in Las Vegas of all places!  

I think this will help to illustrate the point, while driving down Paradise road (which is not the strip but is connected to it) my wife let out a gasp...when I looked up I knew why.  Right next to us was a moving billboard with for the most part, naked women 'involved' with each other.  Both of us looked back to see if our 14 & 11 year old boys were looking in that direction - if they weren't, they were now after my wife's nice gasp.



Our 14 year old was visually mesmerized while our 11 year old was disgusted and intrigued at the same time.  While my wife and I realize we can not keep out all that the world has to offer, we are trying to limit the rate at which our boys gain exposure.  Although neither of us wanted this experience during this family quality time (what did we expect in Las Vegas!), it did provide the opportunity to continue our discussions on the birds, bees and all other flying things...  This is one of the great things about quality time, you have the TIME to have those discussions that you would not necessarily make time to have.

We were in Vegas for the annual AAU basketball tournament and the final game was a nail bitter where our son's team was down 15 points and was able to mount a come back to win by one point.  If that was not enough (I assure you it was) we (the adults) also got a chance to see the Cirque Du Soliel show O at the Bellagio.  What a GREAT show and time we had  uuhhhing and aahhing at what the performers were doing on that amazing stage.  

Creating memories is one of the hallmarks of spending quality time with those you love and like.  

How do you spend your quality time? 


Blessings,
-d